How to Tell if He’s Into You
Men often have a difficult time determining if a guy is into them or if he is just being polite. While every man is different, you will generally find that men who like a woman will have some behaviors in common. While there are some deviations from the norm, if you learn the typical signs you may be better able to decipher what his behavior does and does not mean. Luckily, most men do the same things when they are interested in a woman.
The biggest thing that you should look for when you want to know if a man likes you is if he is mirroring your movements. A man who is into a woman will mirror her movements and even mirror the way that her voice fluctuates when she talks. Look for this subtle but very tell tale signs that he wants you as much as you want him.
Another sign that he is into is the squaring of his shoulders. A man will always sit with his shoulders squared toward the person that he wants to talk to or that he is interested in. You can basically take squared shoulders as an open invitation to get to know him better. Watch him though, he may square with one person after another, which means that he is open to getting to know everyone better.
Other signs that a man is interested in you may include but are not limited to:
? He smiles at you a lot
? He’ll tease you when the opportunity presents itself
? He tends to be very near to you, even in a crowd
? He gives you compliments
? He offers to do things for you
? He’ll laugh at your jokes
? He remembers everything you say
? His voice gets softer when he talks to you
? He may appear to be shy when you are around
? His pupils dilate when he looks at you
? He unnecessarily maintains eye contact
As you can see, most guys make it really simple to tell whether or not they like you. You may need to observe them and really take in their behavior for awhile before you determine for sure whether the guy is into you or just wants to be friends with you, because with some guys it really is difficult to tell. If you find that he is always moving away from you and doesn’t do any of the things listed above, chances are that he is not interested and you are better advised to focus your attentions elsewhere. When you get to the bottom of it, most men are really easy to read, as long as you know what you are looking for!