Mistakes Many of Us Make That Are Keeping Us from Having Amazing Sex
If you’re having sex but you always wish you could have more sex or just have better sex, you can! Even if you have a great sex life it can always be better! How? By avoiding some of the things that we all do when it comes to sex. When you stop making these same mistakes you will find that a whole new world of sex and sexuality opens up to you, making it better than ever before.
1. You rush sex. Often we are so excited about having sex that we rush through it. Why are we rushing when it is something that we look forward to so much? Instead of making a sexual experience a race from start to finish, slow it down. Begin to explore your partner’s body in a new way, find what they like, what you like, and bring a newness back to sex that you haven’t had for a long time. Your sex life will become 100% better if you just slow things down a bit.
2. The same routine. Is your sex routine just a bit too predictable? Do both you and your spouse know when or where you are going to have sex every time? This can make sex seem more like part of the schedule or just something that you do instead of something that should be enjoyed and celebrated. Break out of your routine and get spontaneous! This will turn great sex into mind blowing sex!
3. Breezing by foreplay. As you get comfortable in your relationship foreplay may seem like a waste. While you may not want a long drawn out foreplay session every time, you should stop and smell the roses every once in awhile. It is the build up that occurs during foreplay that makes great sex so great. So, stop just breezing by all of the fun foreplay of the past and do it! You’ll be so glad that you did!
4. One of you always makes the first move. If you always anticipate that one person is going to make the first move than things are just a bit too predictable and one person may always be waiting for the other. Allow both people to make that first move, in fact insist upon it. When you are both able to initiate sex you will be free to explore a new aspect of your sexual life together, which will make things hotter than ever before.
5. Watching television before sex. Do you go into the bedroom at night and automatically turn on the television and then have sex after you are done watching? Instead of allowing yourself to get tired and entertained while watching television, why not turn off the television and have sex first and then if you are still looking for some entertainment you can turn it on after a bit of pillow talk!