Reasons You May Not Be Having Enough Sex
Do you wish that you were having more sex? Most men and women will state, when asked, that they would like to be having more sex. Yet, so many people claim ignorance when they are asked why they aren’t having more sex. There are several common themes among men and women that are not having as much sex as they would like. When you know these common themes, you might be able to find more time for sex in your life.
1. They have a television in their bedroom. Couples who have a television in the bedroom have half as much sex as those who do not. The reason is that it is easy to just turn on the television and tune out of the intimacy that you used to tune into before the television set arrived. Want to have more sex? Simply leave the television off or move it out altogether.
2. Bickering. Many couples spend more and more time bickering and this leaves less room in their lives for sex. Even if there is still time, after all of the bickering neither party wants to be physically close to the other, which results in less sex. Stop bickering so much, only talk about the things that really matter and work on disagreeing in a constructive manner.
3. The kids are in the bed with them. Having kids is a lot of work, but it doesn’t mean that you can’t have any sex. If the kids are sleeping in the bed with you, kick them out at least a couple nights a week. This will ensure that you have the time and the space to have more sex.
4. Conflicting schedules. In today’s society it is not uncommon for people to have mismatched schedules. Instead of just giving up on spending time together, start going to the gym with one another or have lunch together. This will reestablish that connection that is necessary for a great sex life.
5. Health problems. As we age and are together there are often health problems that get in the way of our intimacy. Instead of giving up, work together to take care of your body and theirs. Start eating healthier foods together, work out together, and eat less.
As you can see, there are some common themes that interrupt ones sex life, but it doesn’t have to be this way. You can begin to take charge of your sex life by fighting back against these things. Everyone deserves to have a close, loving, and sexually gratifying sex life. You may have to make some changes, but they will be well worth it in the end.