You’ll Make Your Man Cringe if You Say
There are many things that you might say or do that will irritate your man to no end. It is not that you are trying to irritate him; it’s just the difference between men and women. You can help your relationship last longer and exist in a much healthier state if you know what men don’t want to hear you say…ever.
1. Don’t ask him if he loves you. The bottom line is that if a man loves you, you’ll know it. You’ll know it because he behaves in a way that tells you that he loves you. He will also say it. If you ask him if he loves you, you are going to appear needy and he’s going to wonder if the relationship is the right one for him. Don’t force it, allow for him to tell you in his own time.
2. Don’t ask him if your outfit makes you look fat. There is not a right answer when you ask him that, so don’t go out or don’t wear something unless it makes you feel good. He’ll tell you when he thinks you look good, but if he doesn’t say anything it doesn’t mean he doesn’t think you look good. Don’t ask him if you are fat, it will make him cringe for sure!
3. Do you like my new haircut? Many women are constantly seeking approval from their men on everything that they do and they don’t want you to do that. He wants you to feel confident, so if you get a new haircut be sure that you like it and that you feel good with it cut that way. When you feel good and exude confidence he thinks you are much sexier, anyway.
4. Won’t you go shopping with me? Face it, guys and girls shop in completely different ways. Women like to browse around a bit, looking at things they need and even those that they don’t need. Men like to go to a store, get the things they need, and get out. Don’t ask him if he wants to go shopping with you, if he’s being honest, the answer will always be no.
5. You’ll make him cringe if you come into the living room when he watching the big game and you start to talk. Keep the talking to the commercials and don’t try to talk about anything of any importance. Chances are, if it’s not an emergency that it can wait until after the game when you won’t annoy him and you can have his full attention. You’ll both do better if he’s not in the middle of a touch down or when the bases are loaded!